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1. A flamboyant homosexual.

2. A person who deliberately makes inflammitory or slanderous posts on internet message boards for the purpose of starting a flame war.
1. That one dude from Will & Grace.

2. The forum member's tendancy to insult and pick fights with other users earned him a reputation as a flamer.
by Deejster June 04, 2005
An Individual who without any knowledge of the purpose, has flame tatoos applied to his/her arm.
Jordan aka Frankie
by Raganoo November 26, 2003
Short for a "flaming asshole" which is an asshole of the highest magnitude.
"What a flamer" "He/she is a real flamer"
by Badkneesbill May 08, 2007
a man who puts on a button-down, pink shirt with three buttons undone, torn jeans from abercrombie, flip flops, silk underwear and mousse in his hair and then heads out and cries to a barbra streisand musical, after which he goes to starbucks, where he orders a cappuccino, which he enjoys while reading an article in "vogue" about how to please your man. after all this, the "man" goes to the gap for some shopping and then heads out for a manicure and hair appointment.
the damn flamer couldn't stop talking about clothing materials, so i showed him the newest playboy and he quickly dissapeared
by clevelandsteamer September 05, 2005
Gamer lingo for flamethrower.
Omg... what a flamer whore
by Vertigo December 30, 2004
faggot; gaylord; homosexual; probably originnated from california
"dude, Maxwell is a total flamer, he had 3 flamers over his house last week."
by mgreendaybabe December 29, 2004
1. someone who is agressively sexual or initiates sexual behavior
2. a poser.
by lauren August 30, 2003
an idiotic person who misspells the word message on a message board
A flamer is a person who writes enraged notes on a forum or massage board"
by Reaper-X November 21, 2007