A person that requires their sexual partners to have specific genitals. Their genital specifications can, and often do, vary. Typically, a person with a genital
fetish requires their partners to have genitals that correspond with their partners’ assigned birth sex; e.g.
cisgender men have a penis and
testicles, and
cisgender women have a vagina and overlies.
Frequently, genital fetishists use the term “genital preference” in the company of others, or to explain their sexual requirements to potential partners in an attempt to appear polite and thoughtful. However, unlike a genital preference - where open minded people are able to see past their partners physical variations, genital fetishists require their partners to posses genitals that
meet their requirements and expectations. Genial fetishists regularly use “genital preferences” to exclude
transgender and
gender nonconforming people from their sexual and romantic lives. Furthermore, unlike uneducated people with uninformed genital preferences, genital fetishists are unwilling to engage in self-introspection to overcome their culturally learned biases.
In addition to genitals that match assigned birth sex, genital fetishes also include size, shape, girth, tightness, color, and ornamentation desires and expectations. While many people have genuine genital preferences, genital fetishists typically require their sexual and romantic partners to
meet their physical expectations in order to satisfy their selfish, sexual needs.
Tom: Hey Rick, I think you should meet my coworker Donnie; you guys would really hit it off!
Rick: Yeah? Tell me about him?
Tom: He’s a
transgender man, about your height, and he’s new to the area and wants to meet a boyfriend.
Rick:
Ah, no thanks. I’m only interested in real men that have working equipment. You know what I
mean. I’m not into female anatomy.
Tom: Donny is a real man. He just happens to have a vagina; but it’s a man’s vagina.
Rick: Okay,
whatever Tom. I just have a genital preference; I can’t help who I am and what I’m attracted to.
Tom: If your preference is a requirement, then it’s not a preference. I think you’re a genital fetishist.
