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1.
A way of asking people how they are
hey honey hows you diddling
by ladycazzeh October 16, 2006
 
2.
enjoying each others company
you down for diddlin?
by smkokk February 04, 2011
 
3.
the process of sleeping with multiple individuals in the same household.
My husband was diddlin' the babysitter, the renter and me.
by braddawg August 16, 2006