look up any word, like fluffer:
a person who is sweet and compassionate towards girls, they are almost all the time mistaken as gay just because they are nice and sweet towards girls. Guys like this are the soft and caring kinds.
Boy 1 - God have you seen that guy? He's so gay

Boy 2- I know right he's always hanging mostly with girls?
Girl 1 - Calm your tits he's just being a Coddy. Nothing gay about that.
Girl 2 - Yeah he is a much nicer person than you two douches would ever be.
by roriten July 26, 2013