1. A bisexual or biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who is attracted to people with female or feminine gender identities and nonbinary people.
2. A bisexual person with a female or feminine gender identity who is homoromantic.
3. A biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who is homosexual.
4. A bisexual or biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who has a heavy female leaning.
5. A double-binary or intersex person who is attracted to people with female or feminine gender identities.

The equivalent for male/masculine people being attracted to male/masculine gender identities is "bi gay".
People who say that bi lesbians don't exist don't know what the term means.
by Shugunou January 27, 2023
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An oxymoronic label some people are insistent on using that invalidates both the bisexual and lesbian communities. If someone experiences any sort of attraction to men they are NOT a lesbian. If someone is bisexual with a preference for women they are a bisexual with a preference. Stop being afraid of calling yourself bisexual and insisting on clinging to labels that don't apply to you.
Girl 1: Yeah, I'm a bi lesbian! I'm romantically attracted to women and sexually attracted to men and women!
Girl 2: Girlie please be fr, you can't be calling yourself a lesbian if you're attracted to men in any way...
by app1ejelly January 29, 2023
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This term is used to explain Mspec (Multisexual) people with an emphasis on attraction to women in one way or another. This term means different things to different people, but defintions include:
- A Bisexual Homoromantic
- A Homosexual Biromantic
- One who is attracted to women as well as feminine Non-binary people and wishes to not misgender Non-binary people by lumping them in with women.

- One who is attracted to more than one gender, but whose primary attraction is with women
A Bi Lesbian is NOT a Bi person with a preference for women.
(Note: This definition also applies to Pan Lesbians)
Person A: "What did you say your sexuality was again?"
Person B: "I consider myself a Bi Lesbian."
Person A: "That's right! Thank you for reminding me."
by lacklusterangel July 4, 2020
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A bi lesbian typically refers to someone who prefers feminine nonbinary people, but doesn't want to misgender them. It can also refer to someone who is sexually attracted to women but will date men. In their minds, the 'lesbian' part in this refers not to girl on girl, but is referring to the femininity of the gender they are attracted to. This isn't the best way to call themselves, however. They should call themselves "bi with a female lean," because lesbian is a term that means female on female, and bisexual contradicts that.
I am a bi lesbian because I don't know how to word things properly.
by ManyManyMoney October 23, 2020
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A bi lesbian, sometimes also referred to as pan lesbian, is a woman who is primarily attracted to women but has some limited attraction to men. Most commonly, Bi lesbians have romantic and sexual attraction to women, but for men, the attraction is exclusively sexual, or exclusively romantic. A bi lesbian can also be a woman who primarily dates women and is attracted to women, but will sometimes very occasionally date or have sexual relations with a man.
Guy: Hey, would you go on a date with me?
Girl: Sorry, I don't date men.
Guy: I thought you said you where bi though?
Girl: I'm a bi lesbian, not bi. I have physical attraction to men, but no romantic attraction to them.
by katonakob August 21, 2020
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A lesbian that is attracted to more than one gender. May or may not be attracted to men, as some bisexual people define their attraction as to “two or more genders” not “attraction to men and women”.

May or may not use the SAM. There are infinite reasons someone identifies this way.

All queer identities are valid.
Cori is a bi lesbian that is attracted to men, but Sara IDs as a bi lesbian and is not.
by queerkyoshi February 25, 2021
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An often-controversial label most oftenly used to describe:

1) A woman who experiences homosexual and biromantic attraction or vice versa;
2) A woman who experiences attraction to member of their own gender along with non-binary genders;
3) A woman who experiences bisexual attraction with preference to members of their own gender
Person A: Are you gay or straight?
Person B: I'm a bi lesbian
Person A: Oh, that's so cool!
by Cezico June 22, 2020
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