A lesbian who prefers to dress in a butch/masculine/androgynous way, but may have a more feminine attitude; considered the opposite of a “chapstick lesbian
Person A: “Where do you fall on the futch scale?”
Person B: “I’m a soft butch.”
by lesbeans are valid February 11, 2018
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a female that is more masculine in additude,dresses like a man but still has a lil bit a (femme) in her.(Soft butch_ females don't want to be men but love dressing and acting like men.
hey! that girl is butchy but damn she hella pretty.
by MeL Perez January 29, 2004
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A woman who looks butch and is the more courtly partner, yet is not rigid about her role.
She looks butch, but she loves to cook.
by Cisco October 18, 2003
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a female that is more masculine in additude, but not so much in the way she looks
she acts butch, but doesnt look butch
by Michelle September 2, 2003
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soft lesbian that is masculinity just super confusing
she is a soft butch
by lila buckinham February 13, 2021
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A Soft Butch is a Butch Lesbian who presents herself as mostly masculine, but has some feminine traits.
Anastasia is a Soft butch. She'll buy most of her clothes from the Men's section and then spend hours on her makeup.
by Sweetmothersappho May 11, 2019
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