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A person who regularly attends Mayhem Nightclub in Southend
A - Are you a mayhemmer
B - Not really, not sure what it means
A - Do you go mayhem most weeks?
B - Yeah i'm there all the time!
A - YOU'RE A MAYHEMMER!!
by blahblahblahblah22222 February 24, 2010