Person1: What do you think of Jaffer?
Person2: umm..he's charming but I think he's a little bit full of himself.
Person1: I think he's the nicest person I've ever met.
The word comes from the Canadian politician Jaffer who thought the Conservatives respected him thus portraying his family and followers as an epic fail.
Dude, I think that quitting your job scouting for the New York Yankees to break into porn might have been a total Jaffer.