dumbinant 

A BDSM lifestyle term for an idiot that considers him or herself to be a Dominant of submissives and slaves in the lifestyle.

Wow! That guy is a dumbinant if he thinks he can tell my Dominant's submissives what to do without seeking his permission.

Any idiot that thinks he can make me submit just because he thinks he is a Dominant is really a dumbinant and a jerk

dumbinant by justinSayner January 5, 2009

Dumbinant 

(noun) Male or Female: A wannabe Dominant in the BDSM world, easily identified and laughed at by experienced lifestylers.

A Dumbinant will pretend to know everything. A Dumbinant never takes advice. A Dumbinant thinks that dressing in leather and carrying a flogger confers automatic dominant status toward anyone who identifies as a submissive.

Dumbinant by YourToyBox January 5, 2009

DOMINANT BOTTOM 

A person who's dominant in a relationship & is the receiving partner. Those who identify as one are commonly engaged in BDSM relationships as d-types (i.g. master, owner, daddy) with submissive partner(s). Dominant bottoms are best paired with submissive tops & may tolerate switch tops. In a 24/7 power exchange, the submissive top is their ideal.

This term can be synonymous with power bottom, based on the person's view of their identity.

A misconception of this identity is believed bottoms are submissive (psychologically) by default - stems from ignorance. No person is identical - in their preferences, identity & sexuality. Top & dominant are separate (& vice versa) - here's how. Top / bottom is the role of giving or receiving. Dominant / submissive is the role of authority or compliance. These two spectrums can be mix-matched like pizza toppings.

MARK: What am I exactly? I enjoy being his bottom & having him do things for me, yet I’m the dominant in our relationship.

JEREMY: You’re a dominant bottom, Mark - & your top is submissive. You prefer being passive, ordering him around & he enjoys complying at your discretion.

MARK: What? I never thought of that.

JEREMY: Yep. Think of it as you’re the King sitting on the throne - & he’s your servant grooming you head to toe, running errands for you.

DOMINANT BOTTOM by ITERNO_X January 27, 2022

dominant yorkie 

The meanest guy in a pack of wimps.

The dominant yorkie wanted trouble so I kicked his ass.

dominant yorkie by benth September 11, 2009

Dominant and infertile 

Opposite of submissive and breedable

Person 1: bestie you look submissive and breedable

Person 2: actually I’m dominant and infertile

Dominant and infertile by Imjaelol August 20, 2021

dominant cowgirl 

Sex position like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, but the woman is riding the guy's (or girl's) face, not his junk.

My parents walked in on us while we getting it on, but I didn't notice because she was riding my face dominant cowgirl style.

dominant cowgirl by Seatty November 27, 2013

dominant 

The person in BDSM who dominates or controls the wordsubmissive/word partner. A dominant can be either a full-time Mistress or Master, or simply a top (the person doing the tying up or whipping, etc.)

The best kind of dominant is confidant and mature in their street life, too.

dominant by Aileen April 21, 2003