One step further than its junior cousin, DBAD ("Don't Be A Dick"), it presumes the recipient cannot help but be a dick, and merely seeks to mitigate the amount of dickitude to minimize its impact.
Where DBAD can apply to otherwise OK people, DBSAD acknowledges that the person you're talking to cannot reach the threshold of acceptable behavior and suggests they tone it down to the level they're able to.
Preacher:
"So sad that today's Democrat sic party has become
1. Anti-Christian 2. Anti-American
3. Pro-Abortion up to and including birth.
Pray that Godwill soften their cold, hard hearts."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.