Arfred is a word that is used to define someone who has undergone severe trauma and wishes for a quick death every night.
The word originates from a male of the same name. While he was a child, he was severely neglected, couple this with the fact that no one spoke a language he speaks, he was unable to make any friends.
Person 1: Yo, the new kid seems a bit of an Arfred.
Person 2: Yeah, we should probably help him.
Kind, helpful, weird, and in great distress. He will always try his best to make time just to talk to you. When you're in a conversation with him, it's like you could talk about anything in the entire universe (and also it's death), hear things that you may have never heard of, and make yourself feel as special as possible.
But do be careful, he may suffer from multiple mental health issues and he might become too emotionally attached to you after some time.
Person 1: Hey, you're acting like a bit of an Arfred lately. Anything wrong?
Person 2 (in denial): It's fine. I'm alright.
Person 1: Don't worry, I'll listen.
Ardedra is a kind, beautiful girl. By nature, she is extroverted and puts the needs of others before herself. She goes out of her way to make sure everyone is taken care. If you are having a bad day, Ardedra is going to make sure that it turns into a great day. She loves chick-fil-a and small genuine gestures. Ardedra is laid back and likes to observe, she can also be eccentric and quirky at times but she makes life interesting. When she wants something she will go after it. She doesn’t know how she’s going to do it but She can , She will, She Must. Moral of the story is get you an Ardedra :)
When a Canadian / Jamaican male acts like he a woman that gets menstrual cramps every 28 days. Eg... when he doesn't agree with something and wants to be heard.. he then starts acting like a cry baby bitch!