When a player uses his status to assert his dominance over a woman. For example, if a
guy is a good looking player, and one of his women gets out
line, he can flex on her and tell her to shut up; but he has to do it
smooth and stern, not violent and aggressive.
Woman: Why the hell were you talking to that bitch at the
bar?!?
Player: First off, don't raise your voice at me. Second, I'm going to talk to whoever I want, when ever I want. And third, you know you I care about you. That woman means nothing to me...
Woman: Okay... I love you baby. I'm sorry for raising my voice...
Observer at the bar: Damn that
dude just showed the gigolo flex
like a pro.