n. a big flamboyant gay man. It is most commonly used by gay men, and those who hang out with them, affectionately towards physically large gay guys as a way of emphasizing positive feelings towards homosexuality and large body images. However, it is sometimes used pejoratively.

Etymology: The word is a combination of fat and gay, basically short for fat gay. It was first used in the San Fransisco Bay area in the early 1990s, but is now in widespread use amongst gay communities world wide.
John: Look at the big guy. I don't think he's wearing anything.
Jill: Yes he is. Notice that when he attempts to jump, the fat rolls come up and reveal his totally awesome thong, half rainbow, and half neon pink.
John: Haha, nice! I love it when gay pride parades turn into fay pride parades.
by pasta4dinner June 11, 2010
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a smoochie pretty squishy that everyone adores so much and its so hard to hate this beautiful cutie pie and if you hate her take some sunscreen bc its hot af in hell like her
jon : oo damn did you see that girl walk by?
jimbob : yea but she aint a fay and thassa problem
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Abbreviation for Fuck All Ya'll. Generally found as status updates, text messages, tshirts, etc.
His frat tshirt say FAY.
by dnigh October 18, 2013
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Meaning the girly way a guy acts either straight or gay
He was running fayish with his hands on his hips.
by Sam W... S April 16, 2007
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Fay is a fabulous person who is addicted to bands and loves concerts. She usually hates people and people usually hate her but she's too amazing to give a shit. She's weird but that's how she makes friends. She loves food and hates giving an effort. Falls in love too quickly. Hates herself and loves American Horror Story and sleep♡
Matty: Hey, have you seen Fay?
Garret: Probably still in bed being anti social

Matty: How do we get her out?
Garret: Food and bands...
by haiimaloser January 9, 2014
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1920's slang/Harlemese for a white person
I knew she wasn't a Negro; I knew she was fay.
by idonthaveapseudonym July 5, 2009
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F.A.I. is an acronym standing for "Forget about it". BUT is said with a MUCH MORE serious meaning. It is only to be used by someone with sincere feelings of a heavy heart, with much sadness, loss, or strong regret.

When someone cannot think of any other words to describe how they feel, they just know it hurts. When the issue at hand is out of their control (They're feeling hopeless to fixing or mending the problem). This is usually with a lot of regret and resentment for any decisions made leading up to the problem, even if it wasn't their fault they usually feel like it is regardless. They have no hope to feeling better, and they feel there is no other options left but to try and distract themselves from the "source" of the sadness or heart ache. hints: "Forget" about it.

It is said to describe something completely horrific, or devastating. when someone is experiencing extreme loss or sadness.
when something very painful happens to someone, and they feel much regret in the situation and have no hope of mending the situation or the pain they are feeling or may have caused to others in the posses.
Examples of use and situations:

1. I just totaled my brothers car off the side of the freeway when a simi-truck crashed in front of me.... FAI ..Sitting at the hospital playing angry birds.

2. Sometimes I make blind mistakes that don't seem bad at all until the end results come in horrific. Everyone has those choices to make, Juice or water? cook dinner or order in? ...taking 5 more minutes to clean the kitchen, or do it when I get home? It seems like I'm the person who takes the 5 minutes and I'm late, or I leave the dishes for later and I get in a car wreck on the way to work. They seem like meaningless choices until the results come in and your left with the 'what if', and a devastating result. well, FAI there's nothing I can do now.

3. I try really hard to do all I can. But a lot of the time things just don't go my way, if it's not one bad thing its another always interfering with my day. I always think, I should have done this or that and just maybe I could have avoided some issues. I wanted to make it to this new job on time, but my car just wouldn't start, I couldn't walk to it on the other side of town, and no one was available to give me a ride... I walked to it regardless as fast as I could, But needless to say they were closed well, FAI..
by Author33 May 20, 2013
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