(Dating/
relationships definition of “Blackpill”)
The Blackpill ideology claims that physical attractiveness is the primary determining factor in dating and
relationship success. Unlike the Bluebill and Redpill ideologies, Blackpill maintains that the effects that physical appearance has on one’s performance and results in the dating world cannot be remedied by improving personality, clothing, hairstyle or hygiene. Any non-physical
characteristics, such as personality, will simply be shadowed by one’s physical appearance which include facial proportionality, height, body fat percentage and frame. The theory also holds that women generally want to ‘date up’ (
hypergamy) and tend to look for men who are higher than them in status and attractiveness which leaves average men with even less options.
Common misconception of the Blackpill are that it's a nihilistic viewpoint that is solely expounded by Incels. In reality, Blackpill is entirely descriptive and makes no prescriptions as to what someone ought to feel about this realization. That is up to the individual. Secondly, one need not necessarily be an Incel to be blackpilled.
Guy 1: "Dude, what was your biggest Blackpill
realization moment?"
Guy 2: "When by best
female friend of 5 years ended up dating my chad
best friend who she only met 2 days ago....."