A combination of the ideas pansexual, panromantic, and queer, meaning attraction to people of any gender (pan) whilst critiquing dominant societal conceptualisation of romantic attraction, sexuality and gender (queer). Signals a more radical intention than "pansexual" or "panromantic" whilst being more informative to those not conversant with queer theory than "queer".
Alex is panqueer and cannot grasp why people insist on being so strict with sexual identity when fluidity and complexity of identity are so common.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.