dagger_grrl's definitions

intergendered

one who identifies across or beyond male/female gender ideals. one who emotionally or spiritually experiences elements of both or many genders.

Alec had an outwardly feminine demeanor, but felt that her spiritual self occupied a space that could be either male or female.

by dagger_grrl February 28, 2004

meal ticket

an older man who shelters or showers with gifts/money his younger male lover.

"so what're you, his meal ticket?"
"no, dick is my WARD. says so on the cover."

by dagger_grrl October 11, 2003

femme

an overtly feminine dressing/acting lesbian. as opposed to a butch woman. sometimes used to describe a gay man.

all the others girls think Brit's acting femme to fit in with the straight chicks, but apparently that's just her personality.

by dagger_grrl October 11, 2003

Hand job

to masturbate, usually to masturbate someone else to the point of orgasm. usually used for guys, but girls can be given hand jobs too. wheee!

josie got sick of always bending over for her man, so she taught him how to give killer hand jobs to keep the score even.

by dagger_grrl October 11, 2003

spikey

affectionate nickname for a girl or young woman with short, spikey hair usually in crew-cut form.

hey spikey! just get a hair cut?

by dagger_grrl February 14, 2004

lesbian

a woman whose emotional, romantic, and sexual energies are geared towards other women.

janet is writing abook about the history of female same-sex attraction.

by dagger_grrl March 17, 2004

long time companion

a sometimes euphemistic term used to describe one of two people of the same sex who are in a commited, longterm, co-habitational relationship, and who are often presumed to be lovers.

myrtle and her long time companion, susan, retired together on Cape Cod last year.

by dagger_grrl October 2, 2004