2 definitions by butterflygirl511506
A type of person who makes plans to meet with you, then they don't show up and leaves you wondering the reasoning of their absence even when you have texted and called them several times to see why. When you confront them about their behavior, they cut contact with you or make you feel like you done something wrong to them. A flake is a deceitful, unreliable person who is often misjudged as being caring and kind. It is best to stay away from these people if you don't want to be taken advantage of.
Tess promised she will go to a party with me last week but then when I arrived there, she never even showed up. I texted her why she ended up not making to the party but she left me on read. What a flake.
by butterflygirl511506 October 20, 2021
Highly Sensitive People. A highly sensitive person is the most conscientious person you could ever meet. They pick up on everything around them and other people’s feelings that after, they need downtime to decompress, regardless of being an introvert or extrovert. Their emotions are extremely intense. They cry often to release any type of emotions. They can’t control their crying and can overreact because they just feel so much and on a emotional rollercoaster. They tend to be overthinkers, perfectionists and people pleasers. They care about people and things deeply and love nature, pets, animals, beauty and art . They hate criticism, cruelty and conflict so much that they try to avoid it. They don’t understand violence or why people can mean at times. Experiencing those things can make them react emotionally in a negative way or shut down. They felt different or misunderstood growing up. They are used to hearing people say to them that they are too sensitive and need to grow thicker skin. It can be hard for non-HSPs to relate to them because they have deeper emotions and their surroundings can overwhelm them. Therefore, they are often labeled as “weak” or “crybabies”. This can lead an HSP to experience depression, anxiety or feeling alone. Lastly, they just want the world to be a better place and they are constantly searching for meaning in everything in their lives. They want to have a purpose. They think deeply and spiritually and make the greatest friends and leaders.
Jessica is an HSP. She needs downtime after going out to a busy social gathering because of the overstimulation. Her emotions are so intense that she cries often. She tries so hard to make other people happy and never wants to disappoint them. Her and her pet dog are very attached to each other and she loves art. She breaks down every time she’s in an argument with someone. She told me she felt different and misunderstood her whole life and many people told her to ‘toughen up’. That brought her down because being an HSP is part of who she is and she can’t change that. What I love about Jessica is that she wants to make the world a better place and is a very spiritual, conscientious person. Due to that, she is an excellent person to look up to!
by butterflygirl511506 October 17, 2020