Definitions by Silence!

ex-raver 

Someone who used to go to raves but has sort of "grown out of it" due to age and life circumstance. They can't help but carry a soft spot in their heart for the music and sometimes a smile when they pass a candy store.

Think the last scene of the movie "The Beach"

"My wife/husband is sort of an ex-raver so I decided to drop off our son at the sitters and create a "rave" for the two of us"

ex-raver by Silence! July 8, 2006