someone who pretends to want to be a submissive in a Dominant/submissive relationship, but who actually is interested in kink, not service.
Beginning his sentence to the Mistress with, "i want...", he proved not to be submissive at all, but just another wanna-sub who'd done no research into the reality of The Scene; his interest was purely pornographic.
by The Mistress Didi* November 4, 2007