A "male" thot; seeking relationships with another individual who is wealthy and likely, two-to-three times older than their own age.
She ain't lookin' for a thotamite... She's looking for a true gentlemen.

You should totally approach him. He's a young Lad who is totally a closet-thotamite.
by ThinkerOverDurr March 18, 2019
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