1. to be well-chosen in spoken words;
2. to be able to select the appropriate verbiage with ease;
3. a desirable trait, implying education and the good use thereof
A want the next speaking engagement. I got good speaks.
Will's our chief negotiator. He's got good speaks.
"...and the next thing I knew I was in bed with him. I don't know how it happened, but he had such good speaks I didn't care."
When you’re at an awkward family gathering and trying to cover up a conversation about the dank weed you just smoked with your goons behind the shed with a wholesome family dinner meat of choice.
Steak at a fine restaurant that is for dogs (good boys)
7 pound ribeye McDonalds burger, Gourmet Dunkin Donuts steak , Chili's 6 oz Sirloin, Chuy's steak fajitas for two, etc.
"Oh, Max, get your paws off of the silk tablecloth! Waiter, please put that good boy steak next to the dog".
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”