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Effeminate Heterosexual 

A 100% heterosexual male who's body language and way of speaking is totally effeminate.
That dude we were talking to seems totally gay but his hot girlfriend told me he's just an Effeminate Heterosexual.
N/V. To diminish one's femininity, by being more feminine, or by casting her in a more "masculine" light than she would wish.

The feminine version of "emasculate."

Noun, verb: efemulate. adj, efemulating
John Boy, I do believe that women here are angry with you because you efemulate them by being the prettiest diva in the room.

She didn't appreciate the efemulating effect that the chainsaw gave her when polite company was around.

I think grandma felt efemulated that I cooked dinner and then offered to wash the dishes.
efemulate by Professor reZz January 9, 2008

effeminate 

males having characteristics generally attributed to females. i.e, gestures, body language, speech, etc.; eg.: flamboyantly gay male or male cross dresser. you add the prefix "eff" only when males are referred to.
person one: " his mannerisms are so effeminate. person two: yeah, he talks, acts, and dresses like a woman.
effeminate by -immolation December 22, 2013

effuculate 

To mess up massively via electronic medium

pronounced ee - fuc - u - late
I've just effuculated by sending an email to my mate saying "my boss is an arsehole" and copying in my boss.
effuculate by effuculator September 13, 2008

effeminate 

Having characteristics never associated with manliness or men. Not necessarily feminine or womanly. (How many women do you know who lisp, flutter their wrists, make prissy lips, and prance?
You wonder why you can't get a job as a policeman? Stop being effeminate and maybe they'll hire you.
effeminate by Bumkicker Slade May 10, 2005

Effeminate 

1.) The kind of behavior that, when exhibited by straight males of the homosapien species, will cause other males to take pause.

2.) Typical action of any male performer on the Bravo network
Effeminate guy: "Hey, let's get all the guys together at my place for a steak dinner."
Everyone else: "Sounds like fun. What can we bring?"
Effeminate guy: "To make sure we dont have samesies, I'll declare now that I'm supplying the CA Cab and crab dip."
Everyone else: "Did he just say, 'samesies', 'crab dip' and the abbreviation for Cabernet in the same sentence? No wonder he hasn't found the right girl yet."
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A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026

No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
Word of the Day on November 8, 2026
Ulzzang true definition is "best & "face" = best face in korean. They are basically people with above average looks, sometimes with the use of photoshop and haduri who post their pics online, some becoming internet celebrities.
"Hey, see that chick over there? She's pretty enough to be an ulzzang. :D"
ulzzang by `r i k kit t y February 26, 2008
Word of the Day on November 7, 2026
EBK stands for "Elite Ball Knowledge." 1 In internet slang, "ball knowledge" originally referred to a deep understanding of football/soccer or basketball, but it has evolved into a broader term for having a highly sophisticated, deep, or niche understanding of any specific topic (such as music, movies, or subcultures).
Person A: "That scene was a direct homage to an unreleased 1982 Japanese indie film."
Person B: "Wow, EBK."
EBK by silwhett November 5, 2026
Word of the Day on November 6, 2026
A seemingly endless debate with a idiot
I don't know man im not ready for yap trap stupidity today which always tries to suck you into it
Yap Trap by WolfieSnack November 4, 2026
Word of the Day on November 5, 2026
Texas is categorized as a swing state in presidential elections, but has voted for Republicans more times than for Democrats in recent history. As such, as demographics change political alignments, some Democrats believe that Texas will vote blue, or Democratic, due to their Hispanic and African American voters, who often align themselves with the Democratic Party's liberal wing.

Blexas has been cited as possible in the upcoming decades, but only if Democrats continue to win the Hispanic vote in bigger margins.
Democrat 1: What is your prediction for the 2024 presidential election?
Democrat 2: Well uh, Blexas!
Democrat 1: You've been saying that since 2008 though.
Blexas by Tritonist June 14, 2021
Word of the Day on November 4, 2026
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