chowder pot Share definition Flag Noun. Occurs when a homosexual man ejaculates in the ass of another homosexual man, therefore resembling a bowl of chowder. After watching the show together, Sean recieved a chowder pot from the big mexican bouncer. chowder pot by kormani December 6, 2006 0 0 Get merch Get the chowder pot mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch