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A man who creates an elaborate scheme to dupe people in online gaming, or chat rooms into believing that he as actually a female for personal enjoyment, sexual gratification, or other personal gain.
"I just found out that Allison is really a man." "Yeah, he/she is such a spalder"
by Kraine November 17, 2006
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