The technique adopted by an experienced lover to ensure that his female partner achieves orgasm by skilful use of his finger or fingers on and around her clitoris before, during or after intercourse.

He will have learned what pressure and rhythm are most appreciated by his lover, often by asking her delicately to show him the way in which she brings herself to orgasm when she is on her own. Close replication of her technique will make her journey towards orgasm shorter and more exciting than experimentation. If she is reluctant to demonstrate her own style of masturbation, he will gently try various ways of clitoral stimulation and monitor her reaction until he knows how she appreciates and what is less enjoyable.