A Dender is a male whore who is usually an escort by day and barback (who likes it bareback) by night. Denders can typically be seen driving trucks, and offering roofie-colodas to minors. Denders are usually very eclectic in their musical selection, but not too selective about their prey.
by sweetits09 March 2, 2009
My boyfriend is a dender <3
by BobbySdfsfgdszx April 12, 2011
"Hey, have I told you that you have the most beautiful eyes? I'd love to take you out sometime" *wink*
"No thanks, dender."
"No thanks, dender."
by godsgifttowomen March 2, 2009
to not belong to any gender. for instance you might have a penis but decide to act and dress as if your were a female however you do not want to be called male or female because they are just words and you just want to be classified as a human.
josie is a dender.
by ilikeponiessss January 1, 2017