Dallywag
Going off on a rant to someone who is not responsible for the cause of your frustration. To show anger or vent to an innocent party. To act as if you want someone to provide the answers to your issues but then reject their advice because you just want to vent, but in such a way it almost accuses the listener.
"Don't burden me with your dallywag - I'm not the one who is responsible!"
"I'm tired of your daily dallywag about... what do you want me to do about it?"
"I'm tired of your daily dallywag about... what do you want me to do about it?"
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