Backhand-invite 

To invite someone to an event after telling them about it and not inviting them the first time.

I can't believe this bitch backhand-invited me to her birthday party!

I had to backhand-invite Sheila to my party. I assumed she would come when I was telling her about the plans weeks ago.

Damn! Now I have to backhand-invite my roommates to my party!

Backhand-invite by Brischenda December 5, 2009