A not-date is a sad excuse for people who can't decide whether they are going to get some or not. Often misused for DWOB.
by PaulyD89 February 16, 2011
The gay version of bros before hoes. Basically, you be a wingman for your straight friends before you get dates for yourself. It's a rule, trust me.
Straights before dates.
by Feeling Kinda Naughty September 07, 2020