What are you getting at?

Usually said when a person is trying to allude to a bigger topic/claim in their comments/questions. The thing that is being alluded to is usually unpleasant and/or not in the favor of the person who these comments are being told to.

Interrogator: Where were you at 5:10pm am on the 13th of February when your husband was killed?
Women: I was at the supermarket.
Cop: Really? We looked through the security cameras and you were no where to be found, cops also testify weren't carrying any groceries when you came back home.

Women: What are you getting at?

Cop: I'm saying that you killed your husband and used the supermarket as an alibi!

by thickjordanianbooty101 March 4, 2021

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Talk you through it

A phrase referring to a sexual partner “talking you through” the leadup to an orgasm. Dirty talk, often involving praise or degradation depending on the relationship.

Common in fandom spaces and in comment sections of male celebrities

“Pedro Pascal looks like he would talk you through it”

Him:” that’s it, you like that, huh? Yeah you love it, come on baby, give me another one.”
Her, later: he really talks you through it

by Gottafixthedefinition February 17, 2025

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