velvet ashtray Share definition Flag Ejaculating on a woman's back and then putting your cigarette out in the semen. I had no where to put out my cigarette, so i pulled out, jized on her back and gave her the ol' velvet ashtray. velvet ashtray by gride9000 September 6, 2010 0 0 Get merch Get the velvet ashtray mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch