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A "BDM" is a slang term for a lesbian. "BDM" or "Big Dyke Mule" is used by the grandmother in the hilarious comedy "The Wedding Crashers".
Oh that Elenor Rooselvelt was just a carpet muncher. A big ugly dyke. A big, dyke mule! "BDM"
by twrigh3 September 24, 2010
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