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A "BDM" is a slang term for a lesbian. "BDM" or "Big
Dyke
Mule
" is used by the grandmother in the
hilarious
comedy "The Wedding Crashers".
Oh that Elenor Rooselvelt was just a carpet muncher. A big ugly
dyke
. A big,
dyke
mule
! "BDM"
BDM
by
twrigh3
October 6, 2010