tootsie

a feminine gay man. calling someone a tootsie can be both derogatory or playful, it really depends on the context in which it is used.

derogatory: "stupid fucking tootsie... i bet he can't even tie his own shoes!"

playful: "i see you staring at him. you must really like him, huh, tootsie?"

by delaanii July 30, 2020