1 definition by azndrummer

A term used for a heterosexual person who exhibits homosexual qualities. If they are really fucking queer, you tell them they have the big gay. It is definitely not gendered specific, nor targeted to only people. If you stub your toe on a coffee table, you can say it's got the big gay
Person 1: Is he gay?
Person 2: No, He has the big gay?
Person 1: So, gay?
Person 2: No, You know when you are not gay but you have the big gay.
by azndrummer February 7, 2018
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