Trophetizing

When someone experiences being in a group friendship and is ‘used as a trophy’ in the group. This happens when said person is not talked to, but noticeably ‘wanted’ in the group just as to exist there.
I got so used to my friends trophetizing me that I just sit around waiting to be of use!
by Virus <3 November 16, 2023
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Trophying

A trauma response of when someone makes themself of no bother to their group, but is actively around them like a ‘trophy’. Said person will make themselves ‘ideal’ or ‘suitable’ to the others who keep them around by not talking unless talked to.
A: What are you doing?
B: Just trophying to people’s ideal, why?
by Virus <3 November 16, 2023
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