Going out of your way to do what's
best for yourself, especially at the
cost of those closest to you, while insisting its for their good and that you have their best interests at
heart.
"I care about you, that's why I
spent our last 60 bucks on food out for me when you needed gas."
"I'm so caring. Last
night I got myself a mani pedi with my boyfriends
money without asking."
"It's really caring of you when you insist we eat what you want even though I am allergic to it."