Ruby Tapes's definitions

Bemme

Lesbian term describing someone who is not quite butch, but not quite femme, but identifies more with butch. Not to be confused with Futch, another term where one doesn't identify as either butch or femme, but relates more to being femme.

Bemme's wear plaid shirts and converse, Futch's wear vests and ballet flats.

by Ruby Tapes January 28, 2009