1 definition by Pedro Cerrano Jobu

a female's polite let-down during a first date using very subtle signs. It is often not until a follow-up attempt is made for a second date that you realize in retrospect that on the first date you were SOL to begin with.

a female who will tell you in person during the date that it was so very nice to meet you, only to tell you days after the date that they don't ever want to see you again.
I met up with a girl I found on Tinder for a drink. Things began well, and she acted like she was having a great time and gave me a hug at the end and noted how very nice it was to meet me. But then when I tried to follow-up though with her for a second outing, man it was rough because I got the quan. She decided to quan me by telling me that even though it was so very nice to meet me, she thinks that we are incompatible. It was apparently so very nice to meet me during the date that she later decided she didn't ever want to see me again. Clearly, I got the quan.
by Pedro Cerrano Jobu September 10, 2014