A phrase used to describe the agonizing frustration of realizing that you did something you regret, and wanting to do it differently but realizing it after-the-fact. This typically occurs about 5 minutes later but the realization of such can occur years later...
Looking back in fucking retrospect, I realized that cute girl didn't want to know the time: she was actually interested in me!
by Babo Sang Pyo December 04, 2005
Someone at a party who is essentially useless in terms of starting or maintaining a conversation in a group, interacting with others or providing any form of noticeably positive interaction. However, they help to give a party mass and so are like fodder.
Fred: "That party was alright, but what's up with Alice? She barely talked or did anything!"
James: "Yeah man, she's total party fodder."
James: "Yeah man, she's total party fodder."
by Babo Sang Pyo October 27, 2007