1 definition by AkrasiaNorth
Xander is the guy you see rejecting others just because he thinks they won't like him eventually. He puts up a wall around himself and tears himself down so others won't see how prideful he really is (Only a few close friends, family, and lovers can see that). On the inside though he is one of the most kind, unique, adorably quirky, and generous people you will ever find. If you find this rare and amazing creature keep it because there isn't ever going to be another like him. He can be really stubborn and will stand his ground in an argument (unless it's that special someone). He is really tall and has the most beautiful blue eyes. Xander is very ambitious with his goals for the future so he works very hard to get there. He thinks having a crush is what love feels like, until he meets that one who makes him really fall in love. When Xander is in love, best believe he will shower you with love and gifts and hugs as often as he can. He needs to be consistently reminded that he is enough, that he is loved, to be himself, and to tear that wall down.
by AkrasiaNorth July 8, 2019