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a young person who usally displays homosexual tendencies...see queer
Jonny acts like such a little queerling.
queerling by ashley September 7, 2004
a child of queers (not homonormative LGBT parents);

a child raised in (as part of) queer culture, and is there "culturally queer" regardless of their sexuality, gender identity, and politics
"How's your queerling doing at school?"
look at those to queerlings. they should stop wearing their girlfriends pants!!

Ancient Queerling 

An older gay male that acts like the world revolves around him, often like some younger gays act known as a queerling.
Jeremie: "Come pick me up now, before I throw a bitch fit!!"
Nicole: "Your such an Ancient Queerling!"
Ancient Queerling by Fashions February 13, 2018
An ancient art in which a woman presses and rubs her genitalia and/or anus against the tongue, lips, and nose of her subordinate. She classically positions herself in a sitting on or straddling over another's face facesitting. The first images of this can be seen in ancient Egyptian drawings, but it is known to have been a historic part of ancient Japanese, Chinese, Indian, Medieval European, Victorian and other cultures. Originally a way for upper class women (Queens included) who wished to achieve sexual gratification without becoming pregnant; be they a virgin or a wife with her husband unavailable. It was usually the job of male slaves and servants to submit to their mistresses desires, in Japan there were even brothels where women and girls would pay for male slaves specially trained in the art of queening.
Today queening is enjoyed by people the world over regardless of social status. In this age of balancing the feminine energy it seems to be a particularly useful way for women to feel empowered and can be equally enjoyable for whom they sit/ride upon. Just remember practice and focus will lead to skill for both people involved.
"Sorry I didn't call you back, I was queening my husband until late last night."
"I bought two slave boys today, come to my palace this evening and we can queen them together and have tea."

queenlight

To validate a woman's feelings with sincere intent to encourage, reassure, and uplift.
Antithesis of gaslight.

Related for Men: Kinglight
Initially stressed and unsure, after a heart to heart with her friends that queenlighted her, she felt ready to move on and conquer the night.
queenlight by PandaZoukini August 13, 2021
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

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Respectfully by john quan the first December 20, 2020
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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
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