A non-invitation a person gives another (to an event, party, etc) - with the hidden intention that the non-vited person will not attend.
A nonvitation is usually given out of politeness.
A nonvitation is usually given out of politeness.
When Cynthia bumped into me and Michal in the street - she invited us to her birthday. Cynthia is Michal's friend but not mine, so this was probably a nonvitation.
by yonido November 3, 2008
To blatantly and obviously avoid inviting someone to something, especially if everyone knows that the event is occuring. Not to be confused with unvite.
Ryan: Is Kyle going to Spencer's thing?
Kaylyn: No, he was nonvited.
Ryan: Ouch..
Kaylyn: Haha, I'm so mean.
Kaylyn: No, he was nonvited.
Ryan: Ouch..
Kaylyn: Haha, I'm so mean.
by whoknows April 12, 2005
noun or verb: To invite someone in the strict, technical, and polite sense, but to describe it as so lame that he or she wouldn't actually want to come.
"are you doing anything good this weekend?"
"nah, my dog is sick, so I have to stay home and give her pills every few hours. my house is a mess and I may have the flu. but you can totally come over and hang out if you want. we'll order pizza."
definately a nonvite
"nah, my dog is sick, so I have to stay home and give her pills every few hours. my house is a mess and I may have the flu. but you can totally come over and hang out if you want. we'll order pizza."
definately a nonvite
by Dustin TC January 29, 2008
an invitation that you are not supposed to except, because you were hesitantly, i mean "not really" invited. the nonviter makes the event sound lame and uses phrases like "come if you want" or "your welcome to join us"
Sophie: R u going to the chili contest tonight???
Paliswamy: no.
Sophie: boo hoo, let's go out!! i'm so excited to see you!
Paliswamy: ya see, i'm meeting cool tony and his cool friends at a bar near my place soon. you can come if you want
Sophie: was that a nonvite?
Paliswamy: look, your welcome to come. i hate the bar near my place. it's gay. your totally welcome to come though, really
Sophie: nonvited again
Paliswamy: no.
Sophie: boo hoo, let's go out!! i'm so excited to see you!
Paliswamy: ya see, i'm meeting cool tony and his cool friends at a bar near my place soon. you can come if you want
Sophie: was that a nonvite?
Paliswamy: look, your welcome to come. i hate the bar near my place. it's gay. your totally welcome to come though, really
Sophie: nonvited again
by pavbhaji February 7, 2010
When everyone gets invited to an event except you and all you hear about is people talking about the event in front of you.
by 252015 September 23, 2015