Any butch-identified individual who is in a serious, long-term relationship with a queer partner. May or may not cook, fix things, kill bugs, or wear the pants around here.
My mom is always telling me I need to find a nice husbutch and settle down.
by sapiosexist November 14, 2012
Any butch lesbian who is in a serious, long-term relationship with a non-butch lesbian partner. Also considered a "wife."
Here, meet Bob. Oh, yeah, she's my Husbutch. We're so happy together!
by lesmagnet June 04, 2009