The intimate act of shooting a load onto your partner's back. When you leave to get a kleenex to wipe it off, you intentionallyleave the load there for an extended period of time. Turning the load cold, as well as the cold sentiment of abandoning your partner when they trusted you.
The sexual act where a man secretly rubs hot sauce, curry, or other zesty concoctions onto his penis before having sex with a single mom/widow in her small hometown during the holiday season, most notably Christmas.