many of those who are sexually and/or romantically attracted to more than one
gender will often experience the “gruggle”. The gruggle can occur at any point in an individual’s
path on self-discovery but is mostly present in the beginning and middle. In the beginning, the gruggle presents itself as “am i really attracted to this gender or do i just
like the features of this gender?”. It also appears in the middle, where it takes the form of “i do
like these genders, but i view them as opposites in an opposite way” sometimes making the person question their own self-being. If it does not make them question their self-being, it will instead solidify the individual’s knowledge of their sexuality, causing intense
euphoria and self-acceptance
"Sorry
bob, im currently experiencing a Gruggle (gay struggle) and cannot come into
work. I will
check back in with you in 3-5 business days"