A twat who claims he's only behaving like a twat in defence of the fact that other people keep calling him a twat behind his back.
Similar to a self-fulfilling prophecy but more personal, and often used as a defense mechanism, usually by
men to avoid ever having to engage with anyone emotionally, or
say sorry.
Their phrase of
choice should you
ask them why they'
re behaving like a twat is of course: 'Are you calling me a twat then!?' and then centre all their twatness upon you as you obviously must be the source of why everyone thinks they'
re a twat, and are no longer inviting them to any more social events.