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n: A friend in which you are allowed sexual activity but no true relationship is invovled. Not a girlfriend or boyfriend.
The benefit is purely sexual. Not to be tied with feelings.
Jane and I are friends with benefits.
by dwfirebolt99 June 03, 2004
a friend with whom you may occassionally "hook up" or make out with, etc etc, and may do so without worries about commitment.
Friend: "I heard you made out with you like him? Are you going out? Because I thought you were just friends"

You: "Nope. We're just friends with benefits, is all. We're not together or anything."
by steph April 02, 2003
A concept exactly described and labeled "erotic friendship" by Milan Kundera in his classic novel "The Unbearable Lightness of Being", which impressed the literate world back in 1984. That is basically what that book is about: "friend with benefits" vs. "traditional". - And who wins? Well, let's say: both fail, but "traditional" does it with more grace.
I don´t love you, but I like you, I mean, I really like you, I like to have go out with you, I love to have sex with you. You are sort of my friend with benefits.
by Urban Dictionary July 04, 2004
a friend that you are not supposed to be commited to or attached to, that you fuck, or do other sexual activities with.
i have a hot friend with benefits
by laurengonewild November 08, 2003
it's when you don't want a serious relationship but you want him / her as your toy to fuck around with.It also can be when she / him are already in a realtionship but you like that person so he/she agrees to be your friend with benefit.
Your brother is hot but already has a girlfriend so we agreed that I'll be his friend with benefit.
by AshleyPe December 17, 2006
a person who one fucks on the side when not involved in a serious relationship. NOT to be confused with a boyfriend or girfriend, to whom (gasp!) commitment would be involved.
My friend with benefits constantly tells me about how he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend...what a sonofabitch.
by je suis, tu n'est pas August 09, 2003
a guy who is a girls friend. they aren't dating but they can have sex. the only time you can have sex with two people without considering it cheating.
woman:wanna be my friend with benefits.
man:whats that?
woman:we have sex but we're not dating.
by mowcow1233243 July 13, 2008
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