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1.
The feeling of being distraught, overwhelmed with stress, or being upset at person or a certain situation.

Could be added with the adverb re, requete, or ooltra
Little Legs Lex is always fucking fended when he walks into work.
by meetlouiz July 25, 2008
 
2.
It's a shorter version of the word offended except without the O. So, basically it means offended.

Or you can use it to explain someone in a bad mood.
If someone is in a bad mood, and not talking you could say "Aw, your so fended"
by DeadisthenewAlive April 23, 2009