The feeling of being distraught, overwhelmed with stress, or being upset at person or a certain situation.
Could be added with the adverb re, requete, or ooltra
Little Legs Lex is always fucking fended when he walks into work.
It's a shorter version of the word offended except without the O. So, basically it means offended.
Or you can use it to explain someone in a bad mood.
If someone is in a bad mood, and not talking you could say "Aw, your so fended"