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1.
To masturbate; to give yourself an orgasm. Usually used by women.
Sometimes I feminate to put myself to sleep at night, thinking about boys and girls I've loved or hope to love.
by Theresa Marie October 26, 2005
 
2.
To whine or complain. Can apply to males and females.
Hey bitch, don't feminate about the dishes and bring me a beer.
by Riemer August 04, 2006