(bro-tam) noun; An official notice to other bros of a bro's relationship status(or more likely, relationships) whose purpose is to avoid awkward , embarrassing and potentially expensive unauthorized release of need to know information to the bro's significant other(s)
Hey bro, did you get the BROTAM about Dave's side hide being in town?
1. Someone who is down to earth, hilarious, and a relaxing fella to hang with.
2. The man with the plan is always a brothaman.
3. The dude you always wanna hang with and he wears some sick sambas or original blue converse.
Special-K is everyone's brothaman man, cus there ain't no man like tha motha fuckin' brothaman.
the brotem pole is a sex position consisting of a male or female standing on his/her head and another male standing on a chair and fucking them in the ass.